Have you ever found yourself at a crossroads, gripped by indecision?
Struggling to even make that initial step forward as the doubt and anxiety just simply take over. Hence feeling the pressures from others and also yourself – especially from your inner voice, the critic!
As much as this may not help you at this very moment, understand that within every person, there lies a vibrant array of beliefs that can, at times, pull us in different directions. It is like having “personal guides” where each member has a different agenda. One voice urges caution, while another pushes for bold, courageous action, leaving you caught up in self-doubt and low self-esteem.
So, let’s delve into a transformative journey that begins with acknowledging these inner “personal guides”.
Imagine that each part of you has a seat at the table, and they all want what is best for you, even if it does not always feel that way. One part, perhaps the most vocal, is your inner critic. It is the voice that whispers you are not enough, that second-guesses every step you dare to take.
The important lesson here is to listen to that critic, and not to silence it. Listen to understand its fears and hopes. This voice, as harsh as it may seem, is trying to protect you. It operates from a place of past pain, seeking to keep you safe from harm and disappointment. However, in its manic efforts, it may be holding you back from experiencing outstanding opportunities and the fullness of life.
Now, imagine another part of you, one that embodies your courage and your hunger for growth. This is the part that dreams of what you could achieve if only you would step out of your comfort zone. It is the side of you that knows your true worth and the outstanding potential you hold within.
So in fact, you have a personal guide that is here to protect you from being hurt again, and another wanting to move forward out of your comfort zone and take that great leap of faith. Can you see that you have two personal guides with two different intentions, yet they have one common theme….they want what is best for you and your well-being.
To live authentically congruent means to bring these two personal guides together into a harmonious relationship. It involves recognising that while their methods may differ, their intentions are aligned….again, they want what is best for you and your well-being. The conversations between these personal guides is where healing begins. It is where you start to see that the protective measures of your inner critic are no longer serving you and that it is time for a change. Time to move forward.
Changing your belief system is about expanding it and not about getting rid of parts of who you are. By acknowledging the positive intentions of your inner critic and gently guiding it towards new perspectives, you pave the way for a newfound sense of confidence and self-worth. With the key word being gently….with patience and kindness.
Imagine living a life where you make choices based on self-love and confidence rather than fear. Picture waking up each day, feeling aligned with your core values, and moving forward with clarity and purpose. Understanding that not all days are the same and that by being and living congruently from within your true, authentic self….each day provides you an abundance of opportunities, blessings and purpose. This is not a dream, this is something you can start building today.
“Be congruent, be authentic, be your true self” ~ Mahatma Gandhi
Your journey towards self-belief is about integration, about finding the balance between caution and courage. It is about creating a space where every part of you can express itself, and rather than conflicting, can contribute to the outstanding journey of your life.
As you step into this process of inner alignment, remember that it is not about perfection. It is about progression, about taking one step at a time towards the person you know you can be. Each day offers a new opportunity to affirm your worth and to treat yourself with the compassion you deserve.
Let this insight be a beacon for you, illuminating a path to self-empowerment. You have the power within to live authentically congruent. Allow your inner harmony to be present through understanding, patience, and self-compassion.
As you move forward, carry with you the knowledge that self-doubt and low self-esteem are not your destiny. They are merely signposts, reminding you that it is time to listen to the different parts of yourself….listen to your personal guides! Embrace their wisdom, and to build a united path towards self-fulfilment.
You are the most important person in your life, so seize each day as an opportunity to create a narrative of self-love, hope, and self-belief, with each step resonating as a tribute to your inner strength and the harmony you have developed.
Live Your Life Now
Sava
